For those that have, is there any way of getting a divorce before the 'two years apart' rule if neither has had an affair or acted unreasonably?
Fuck I'm never getting married again.
Fuck I'm never getting married again.
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Posts: 2292 (12/11/08 13:53:06) Apprentice Gay
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The Skerrit |
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Posts: 3519 (12/11/08 14:00:50)
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Just bite the bullet and let her divorce you for unreasonable behaviour - You can then get a quickie. I was thrown out of the first marital home in June 2004
and had a decree absolute by March 2005.
Let the snake with tits accuse you of anything and walk as long as you trust her later not to come after your money... |
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Posts: 1101 (12/11/08 14:02:49) Better than Drysdale |
Don't think so. Sorry to hear you're thinking of going for it though, never a fun time.
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BWD |
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Posts: 2293 (12/11/08 14:04:10) Apprentice Gay
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Thanks chaps.
I've got fuck all except a few West Ham Programs, all the house and shit belonged to her. |
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Posts: 3520 (12/11/08 14:05:58)
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So pack a sports bag, walk and let her accuse you of whatever she likes.
You'll be thankful in the long run... |
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Posts: 713 (12/11/08 14:10:47) Loves a shit moniker |
*shudders*
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BWD |
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Posts: 2294 (12/11/08 14:10:59) Apprentice Gay
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Oh I'm gone mate. Four months into being the single man again.
And loving it. |
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Posts: 427 (12/11/08 14:21:03) Screamer |
if single and happy, why the rush to get a divorce? it's not as though you're going and making the same mistake again is it?
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Time Capsule |
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Posts: 406 (12/11/08 14:29:29) |
I have spent most of this year expecting to be 'seperated' and about to lose all. Not sure if I'm better off though as I'm pretty much the butler and maid these days. So there has been a price to pay. But I know someone who was in a similar situation as you are now and after one year apart they actually got back together after some 'time out being single again' and are presently living happily ever after. Maybe you both just need a break. |
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Lake Palmer aka Monk |
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Posts: 6893 (12/11/08 14:38:44) out-funnied by Big C
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Wise words TC.
'Just needing a break' I imagine that is something BWD has never considered. My advice BWD is just make sure you get the Scooby Doo clock/ornament. |
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Conrad Poons |
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Posts: 1044 (12/11/08 14:49:49) It's All His Fault |
"Divorce" this, "meet outside the Wakefield for a knuckle supper" that. *sigh* Why can't we all just get along....
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Rattus Rattus |
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Posts: 21 (12/11/08 14:52:59) |
Once you have made the decision, get out as quick as you can, even if it means that you agree to being unreasonable, and move on. That two years you will never
get back.
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BWD |
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Posts: 2295 (12/11/08 15:01:11) Apprentice Gay
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I do need a break from her Monk/Tc is just so happens it's a lifelong break that's needed. Both of us it seems do not want to be together. I
cauldn't give a toss about a divorce, she wants one but in all fairness it's something that is only going to happen in the longrun so why not ASAP.
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Season Ticketless |
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Posts: 1025 (12/11/08 15:03:51) Flaccid Member |
It doesn't matter if the house isn't in your name at all. You're still entitled to a share of it. Matrimonial home rights, it's called, and any
solicitor worth their salt will discuss it with you when you're looking at divorce.
Also, as someone else said, have one of you take the blame for some kind of wrongdoing to get the divorce sorted in under two years. I was apparantly putting work about family, which is bullshit, but got my decree nisi sorted. Good luck mate. |
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Posts: 2 (12/11/08 15:07:47) |
I told my soon to be ex wifes solicitor I would agree to being a mass murderer to get a divorce from her. I did not contest the unreasonable behaviour claim,
now unless I come up with somthing good I am going to get stung for the costs. So my advice would be to do the 2 years it will not cost you a penny.
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BWD |
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Posts: 2296 (12/11/08 15:10:34) Apprentice Gay
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Oh, suddenly r50whu's post changes everything.
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Posts: 4518 (12/11/08 15:15:19)
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Divorce is great. You get to keep everything that has 2 (TWO) two duplicates
I LIKE the third best of everything. Chipped plates with unfortunate 80s patterns are the way forward. |
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Joey Deacon |
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Posts: 8116 (12/11/08 15:17:43)
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You have nothing and she has everything? great, make her give you a lump sum or buy you out of house for a quicky, about time they got some back.
Signed Joey lost 3 houses to same women Deacon. |
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BWD |
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Posts: 2297 (12/11/08 15:19:22) Apprentice Gay
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Joey,
Her and her old man own the gaff, did so three years before I 'rocked-up' still eentitled am I? |
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SurfaceAgentX2Zero |
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Posts: 4519 (12/11/08 15:26:06)
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BWD - Bizarrely, mate. Yes. I think you are.
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Posts: 1026 (12/11/08 15:27:02) Flaccid Member |
BWD, yes you're still entitled as you have either put money towards the mortgage or the up keep, or your wages have made it easier for the wife to do so.
Forgot about the whole cost thing though. My wife got it all paid for through legal aid somehow, meaning she was happy to do the expensive side (applying for divorce). Go and see a solicitor. For a one off fee they'll probably be able to tell you your options. |
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